Secret Accounts

With the increasing number of trust issuein nowadays, people seems are not trusty as before. In the spirit ofdiscretion, every one become a cautious person, everything they do, they arenot only discreet but careful as well. At the same time, this behavior somehowaffects couples, now the conjugal secret accounts have become a hot topic, anddifferent people have different opinions on this problem.

随着现在信任问题的不断增加，人们看起来不像以前那样可信了。为了谨慎起见，每个人都变成了小心谨慎的人，他们不仅谨慎，也小心翼翼的。与此同时，这种行为不知怎么地也影响了夫妻，现在夫妻之间的秘密账户成了热点，不同的人对这个问题有不同的看法。

People who are against with the conjugalsecret accounts hold the opinion that husband and wife should be honest to eachother. Once female and male are get marry, they are supposed to open heart toeach other, share everything together, including the money they earned.，and hide no secret from each other. Hence, a conjugal secret accountis not acceptable. This is a sign of disloyalty.

反对夫妻秘密账户的人认为夫妻应当对对方坦诚。一旦女人和男人结婚，他们就应当对对方敞开心扉，一起分享所有东西，包括他们赚到的钱，而且也不能有秘密瞒着对方。因此，夫妻秘密账户是无法接受的。这是不忠的表现。

While some people hold the opposite viewsthat couples should save a private room for each other. Getting married doesn’tmean that you have to expose everything to your soul mate; sometimes a littlesecret will makes relationship delightful. A conjugal secret account is not abig deal since everyone has the desire to buy something that their husband orwife doesn’t agree to, as long as they earn the money for the secret accountsby themselves.

然而有些人持相反的观点，他们认为夫妻间要为对方留点私人空间。结婚不意味着你要对你的灵魂伴侣暴露所有东西。有时候一些小秘密会让夫妻关系变得令人愉快。夫妻秘密账户并不是什么大事，因为每个人都有他们想买的而且他们丈夫或妻子不同意买的东西。只要他们秘密账户的钱是自己赚的就成了。

Weighing up these two arguments intoaccount, I prefer the latter one. You don’t have to show everything to yoursoul mate and a conjugal secret accounts are acceptable. Cheating isdisloyalty, but not a secret account.

权衡这两种观点，我支持后者。你不用什么都让你的灵魂伴侣知道，夫妻秘密账户是可接受的。出轨才是不忠，秘密账户不是。